The Healthy Dating Plan
by David Berry
We’re a month into 2013, if you can believe it, and that means that our New Year’s Resolutions have already been challenged – or ditched altogether. And I’m not talking about food, either. I’m talking about guys, girls!
If you’re a reader of The Fit Cook, then you’re obviously awesome; and keen on taking care of yourself. Well, consider me The Fit Dating Guru. And for the sake of simplicity, I’ve got three things to share with you regarding you and your love life in 2013.
One. Keep your standards high. Dating isn’t like picking between one or two-ply sheets of toilet paper, so why are you still wasting your time on assholes? You know who you are; you know what you have to offer. And just because you haven’t found ‘him’ yet doesn’t mean that you should start compromising your core beliefs just to fill an imaginary void in your heart. Be confident in yourself and wait it out. You’ll be glad you did.
Two. Give him a chance. I don’t know who ‘he’ is, but give a guy a chance to prove you wrong. Okay, he’s short *cough*cough*. Or maybe he’s a bit nerdy. Guess what? That doesn’t make him any less capable of being an awesome guy. He might not end up being ‘the one,’ but he might surprise you. And in the process, he might open your eyes to a world of guys you never noticed.
Three. Be the best version of ‘you’ that you can be. I can’t speak for all guys, but I can speak for quite a few when I say that the most attractive woman is the one who’s living a life filled with passion and purpose. Whatever it is that defines ‘you,’ go out and do it, either professionally or for fun. If you do? You won’t need a guy to complete you – but you’ll want one to join you. And what’s better than that?
I’m under no illusion that these three tips will revolutionize your dating life and land Mr. Right on your doorstep, but it’s a start. And let’s be honest – you kind of deserve it. Go out and get the love that’s coming to you this year. And visit me on www.iamdavidberry.com to check out more of my blogs.